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I wish my pyschogist, have to told me up front that my husband was a narcissistic and would not changed. I went to her for 11 years. I lived him for 40years and six months after I married him, I told God I think I made a mistake marry my husband. His true self came out, no charming prince his whole personality changed.

I've lived this for 24 years. Only a couple of weeks ago did I finally find the strength to get a divorce lawyer. Please don't forget that there are a lot of men that experience this too.

Dr Kim can i have an appt with you do u do zoom

My ex physically abused me, and his priest still sided with my ex. His priest told me “we are both just passionate people 🙄 Made me lose my faith in God and religion. How could God allow my husband to do that, and a priest to say that to me?

Maybe I misunderstood the context, but my bible says, to stay with the dirtbag, be his helper and hope that they will be won to Christ, by a quiet and gentle spirit. I failed at this, I left per the advice of a pastor, and there are days that I feel guilty, though I know Ive been forgiven for leaving, and falling into something even worse. Jesus transforms us, hallelujah!

God is greater than my wife, My wife is greater than my kids, my kids are greater than my work 12:28 🥹🥹

Como obtengo la desintoxicacion por 7 días ?

10 years married, two kids, used to be regularly until kids..now prob once every 3 wks..I would like sex every day / every second day but she only wants sex once a month..it's sad , leads to resentment and anger and sadness

I was in an abusive marriage, he was an atheist and narcissistic. The Lord used 2 people that allowed me to read ”But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.“ ‭‭I Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭15‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ Because a lot of churches teach that the grounds for divorce is adultery only. However abusive marriages don’t represent Christ loving the church.

Let us love God FIRST, then will have no problem loving our spouse or anyone else. 🙌🏼

Really good stuff! You have a new subscriber. Thank you for the content ❤

Thank you for sharing!

I'm Thankful for this video. Knowing that there are people out there that understand this. Sending LOVE💖💖💖

Wow, to be in a marriage that long, crying out for help from the very people you think would help and this is what happens? Very sad.

Trust your instincts/ intuition Feeling unsafe - get to safety

I'm glad she made it out of that marriage. I just hate the time she lost waiting for these religious mentors and elders to intervene and help. Being from a religious background as well, I've learned later people in the church are equally human (i.e., are clueless at best or seek control/coverup at worst). But that took years for me to see myself.

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm glad you pointed out that marriage counseling doesn't work when there is abuse - also that the victim really can't share what is happening in the marriage with the abuser right there, especially when they are going home together afterward. I lived this. The therapist couldn't see how traumatized I was, and I didn't feel safe to share it. And my husband was very adept at guiding the therapy sessions so that it was almost like I was the sole person of us to be worked on. Anyway, I'm glad you are shedding light on this topic.

Elders defend one another & the patriarchy in churches are always excused for such behavior.

I knew someone who's ex kept the act up for like a year and as soon as she took him back it all started over again but worse...

Pray to God to help you. I started doing that each morning. It really makes an awareness for me

It sounds like you are talking to me

I'm so glad someone recommended this video. I just confronted my adult son about his disrespect/contempt/belittling me. He doesn't want to hear it, but I can't continue to be hurt by him.

Welcome back Missed the wisdom Thanks to you both This was great content

My situation

I have a HUGE amount of admiration for you and Casey! You two went through what I would describe as the most painful loss imaginable and, by the grace of God, managed to stay together on the other side of it.

Always thank youuuuuuuu😊

After 4 years of hell! Finally leaving! Hes had many marriages and places blame on everyone else ! Doesnt take an ounce of responsibility ! Praise God for my new home and life. I lost my precious home. I gave into his fake love. 💔❤️💔❤️💔

Nope. I’ve compromised myself and changed a 1000 times to try and make it work and it was never ever enough. A narc am like something cause you hate it and I’m a blink of an eye hell like it cause one of his friends or family likes it it’s insanity

I would be out of sorts all day from the fighting the day before trying to sort things out. So tense and stressed and emotional from the abuse the day before to where I would freeze during the day while he was at work and then try to navigate him coming home and then him ignore me after he came home from work not reconciling which is what I was expecting or wanting

ellen degeneres was sexualy abused by her step dad

I tried it without my abuser and financially I could not support myself.

Thank you for this conversation. 💜Eliminating sugar, ultra processed foods, vegetable oils & grains have reversed my Type 2 Diabetes, lost 40 lbs, better sleep, more energy, better focus, reduced body aches, clear skin. Eating the proper human diet of animal proteins, healthy fats of olive oil, avocado oil, butter, ghee, coconut oil, low carb veggies & seasonal berries along with electrolytes & physical movement give me my best life & better marriage as God designed. 💜🍓🫐🥥🥑🥩🥓🥚🥗🧂🥛☕️🏋‍♂️🚴‍♀️🏊‍♂️🚶‍♀️‍➡️🍗🧈💧😴✝️🙏💜

This was extremely helpful. I’m going through this now with my daughter

Thanks, Dr. Clarke!

Thanks, Dr. Clarke!

It would be great to have a series aimed at post family long term marriage couples.

Its sometimes difficult actually mostly asking and the other person gets triggered right away. It makes so difficult to continue :(

This is so right on. I had the hardest time trying to wrap my mind around thinking about nothing. Especially in the younger years. My mind is always thinking about stuff. 31 years later. Marriage Is work, and needs attention, tune ups. Power of prayer is stronger than anything I know. Great video. Thank you.

You do know that Jesus said in Matthew 5:17-20 only devout Jews get into heaven, and Jews don't celebrate Easter.

I love when psychologists acknowledge both the narcissist and the codependent’s dysfunction. Both sides are not healthy and both need healing.

I have been unequally yoked for nine years, please help

Yes, married the dirt all is right!!!

Every situation is different with estrangement, there are other people in their lives that play a part

Thank you this really helps

Right! You don't need to find him, you dont need to seek him around you....... He is in you, all you need to do is listen to the quiet and fill it with grateful words for him. I am passed the point of "Do you believe in God", its a ridiculous question, just look in the mirror at what he created, look out your window at the animals and the grass, that is your evidence, we are just human beings and have become too self important to see the little things. We dont have a clue who or what we are...... Apart from his creation and thats all that matters to me.

It's all He wants.. a personal relationship with Him.. ❤

You are exactly correct. Young married people can learn from your experienced wisdom. Keep bringing nuggets.

The narc pays and pays

We really are God's stewards! Love this my friend!